There's actually a decent body of evidence out there about what works in online dating, coming from both independent academic researchers and internet dating companies themselves.This is their advice: Researchers have studied word choice both in people's profiles and in their messages — and found some tantalizing results.More than 100 million people use social networking to find love - or lust. Take a look inside the world of digital dating for athletes, where options are plentiful but possible pitfalls are just one click away.
Max: I finished Medical University in the Ukraine and, in 2000, started a web development outsourcing company.
A 2011 German study analyzed more than 150,000 first messages and found that online daters who used words focusing more on the other person (as simple as "you" over "I") were more likely to receive a response than those who didn't.
And when researchers at Ok Cupid looked at 500,000 first messages, they found that casual spellings like like "ur" and "wat" in first messages pushed the reply rate well below average: Casual word choice doesn't have to work against you, though.
"It is very very difficult, if not impossible, to predict initial chemistry using variables assessed before two people meet each other," said study co-author Paul Eastwick, an assistant professor at the University of Texas at Austin.
"The algorithms are not scientifically valid and are extremely unlikely to generate compatible matches." In other words, matchmaking sites simply can't account for how two people will get along in person — chemistry, if you will.